By Alan
Caruba
My Picks of the Month



My Mother
was a cookbook author and famous teacher of haute cuisine, as well as an
authority on wines. I grew up dining on a rich variety of dishes. I did not
give much thought to taste, however, and I doubt that most of us do other than
to prefer some kinds of food and drink over others. Barb Stuckey unlocks the
mysteries of taste in her book, Taste:
Surprising Stories and Science about Why Food Tastes Good ($16.00, Atria
Books, softcover). A professional food developer, she has written an
entertaining book about taste and why some of us prefer some kinds of foods
over others, why we taste foods differently than others, and the science behind
how, what, and why we taste what we eat. It is entirely sensory and some of us
have better abilities to taste while others have lost that due to illness or
injury. This will surely enhance your own ability to enjoy what you eat even
more and, for those who love science, it explains the whole world of taste and
why food producers invest a lot in developing foods that are designed to meet
our specific preferences.
Readers
are frequently writers as well and you have aspirations to be one (or already
are), then you will enjoy The True
Secret of Writing: Connecting Life with Language by Natalie Goldberg
($25.00, Atria). The author has written twelve books including two others on
the subject of writing and has taught seminars on the topic for thirty-five
years. Her book addresses the lessons learned from her workshops over the years
and discusses how meditative actions are important to the creative process.
April 15 is the day tax returns must be filed with the IRS and, if you haven’t
begun yours, check out Julian Block’s
Easy Tax Guide for Writers, Photographers, and Other Freelancers (Amazon Kindle price is $5.99. softcover price is $22.95,
including shipping, available at www.julianblocktaxexpert.com). He is a nationally recognized
attorney and a former IRS agent who has been cited as “a leading tax
professional” by The New York Times and “an accomplished writer on taxes” by
The Wall Street Journal, so you know you find some excellent information that
could save you money when you file. A lot of good advice can be found at http://bookmarketingbuzzblog.blogspot.com, a blog by Brian Feinblum, the chief
marketing officer of Media Connect. If you want to promote and sell your book
these days, you should check it out.
April is National Poetry Month. On my blog, "Warning Signs", I ask if it has become an oxymoron in an era when poets and poetry are largely ignored. Treat yourself to a good poetry anthology. It will provide hours of pleasure.
April is National Poetry Month. On my blog, "Warning Signs", I ask if it has become an oxymoron in an era when poets and poetry are largely ignored. Treat yourself to a good poetry anthology. It will provide hours of pleasure.
Memoirs, Biographies and
Autobiographies

Imagine
now being able to listen to music. More than thirty million people suffer from
hearing loss in
the U.S., but only ten percent are considered profoundly deaf. Little has been
written about the remaining ninety percent, the partially deaf for whom life is
characterized by verbal misunderstandings and conversational riddles. Song without Words: Discovering My Deafness
Halfway Through Life by Gerald Shea ($24.95, Da Capo Press). A childhood
illness left the author with partial hearing loss, but he didn’t realize
anything was wrong, assuming everyone had a similar problem. Despite the
problem, he excelled through elementary and boarding schools, Yale and Columbia
Law School, eventually working his way to a partnership in a New York law firm.
His condition remained undiagnosed until he was 34! This is a candid and deeply
moving story that anyone with a comparable hearing loss will find a comfort and
an inspiration.
Another
inspiring story is found in A Teacher
Grows in Brooklyn ($14.95, Mill City Press, softcover) as Albert Mazza
tells the story of his introduction to teaching in a public high school in 1963
and his realization of the failures of the educational process as it was
practiced then and now. Unlike others, he wanted to change it and to spread his
successful methods of motivating students. In the 1960s and 1970s, he perfected
his methodology with a dream to make improve the system. He created the Young
Diplomats Program that focused on the constantly changing global issues,
helping to make the 1980s an age of discovery for his students. He would join
the New York Board of Education in 1979, become the director of the Youth
Leadership Program, and continue his role as a pedagogic pioneer. After his
retirement in 1995, he became the Director of Education for the America-Israel
Friendship League. This is a truly inspiring memoir and particularly for
educators. Inspiration can be found in Once
Upon a Gypsy Moon, a memoir by Michael Hurley ($19.99, Center
Street/Hachette Book Group, softcover) in which the author chronicles his
decision to live about an aging 32-foot sloop called the Gypsy Moon after he
had lost his job, was short of money, and his 25-year-old marriage had ended.
He began in Annapolis, Maryland and headed south for two years seeking to
salvage “a life that has foundered”, but the experience was one that let him
grapple with issues of faith and disbelief, love, marriage, and the challenged
faced by the adult children of alcoholics. When rough seas forced him ashore,
he met his future, new wife. This is a deeply moving book, especially for
anyone grappling with the challenges that life throws at everyone.
Parenting &
Relationships
Parenting
may be the greatest challenge anyone undertakes and fortunately there are books
to help. Marriage, too, is a challenge and there are books to help deal with
them as well.
Your Child’s Path: Unlocking the
Mysteries of Who Your Child Will Become by Susan Engel ($15.00, Atria Books, softcover) says it
is time for parents to be liberated from all the worry about their child’s
development, much of it coming from the media and other sources of information about
the latest societal ills plaguing children and teens, and I agree. She says you
cannot dictate who your children will become, but you can get a good sense of
who they are and where they are heading by paying attention to what they do,
say, and feel. As often as not problem reveal themselves as a thread that will
reveal itself over time. “And when there are problems, there are gentle ways to
help.” A mother of three sons, the author is a developmental psychologist in
the Department of Psychology at Williams College who has worked with students
of all ages for nearly twenty years. There’s plenty of good advice packed into
this book.

Available
in June, The Secrets of Surviving
Infidelity by Dr. Scott D. Haltzman ($19.95, Johns Hopkins University
Press) addresses the fact that an estimated 40% of marriages are rocked by
infidelity every year. This book debunks many of the myths that surround
cheating and that triggers complex emotions and events. The author does not
advise ending a relationship that might well have been a happy marriage,
teaching both the victim and perpetrator how to acknowledge their feelings,
reduce their sense of despair, and begin to rebuilt a strong relationship.
Interestingly, he says that the chances of cheating go up each year a couple is
together and among the 60+ crowd, some 29% of men and 15% of women have had at
least one indiscretion. He also says that love matures, but doesn’t have to
grow old, offering tips on how to keep the relationship fresh. This book is
filled with good advice on how to avoid and how to deal with this chronic
problem of marriage. Marriages, however, do end, either from divorce or the
death of a partner. This is examined in Suddenly
Solo: A Lifestyle Road Map for the Mature, Widowed or Divorced Man by
Harold Spielman and Marc Silbert ($14.95, www.suddenlysolo.org or from Amazon.com, softcover) This
is a guide for men that offers a positive sense of renewal, filled with advice
on how to move forward from the loss. The book is aimed at those over 50 who
are most likely to encounter this change and it is written with humor as it
provides transitional guidance in a culture that has changed radically since
these mature men were lost “solo.”
Spielman is a sociologist and co-founder of a market and communication
research company from which he retired in 2008. I think this book will prove
very helpful to any man who is seeking to emerge from divorce or the death of
his partner in life. And isn’t just men, of course, who must grapple with such
changes. An entertaining and informative book, Ask Avery Anything: A Woman’s Journey Through Midlife Dating ($10.99,
Second City Books, a division of Windy City Publishers, available via www.AskAveryAnything.com and Amazon.com, softcover) uses her
own and other’s real life stories to offer her advice for women who are
re-entering the dating scene for the first time after a long time in a
relationship. Many conclude that finding a good man is a frustrating process at
a certain age, but Avery offers advice and, best of all, the knowledge that you
are not alone. She does so with honesty and humor.
To Your Health

According to the National Health Council, incurable and ongoing chronic disease affects approximately 133 million Americans, 45% of the nation’s total population. I am inclined to think that figure is high, although it is true that Baby Boomers are joining the ranks of the nation’s elderly at a rate of 10,000 a day. Many have a least one chronic illness and some have more than one. When you consider that today’s healthcare system was designed for the last century, this poses a problem, but for those encountering this challenge it is a personal one. Richard Cheu is the author of Living Well With Chronic Illness: A Practical and Spiritual Guide ($16.95, Dog Ear Publishing, softcover and ebook). He is a neurophysiologist and a pastoral counselor, an ordained deacon and hospital chaplain in the Archdiocese of New York at Bellevue Hospital. He is a believer in taking charge of one’s own well-being as the way to improve the quality and length of one’s life. He has been a care-giver to a chronically-ill wife for nine years. In short, he knows what he is talking about. His advice covers a range of ways one can keep motivated, keeping mind and body active and fit. He discusses the negative emotions unleashed by a chronic illness diagnosis and how to take control of the shock, stress, and grief that accompanies the condition including how to overcome the loneliness that often accompanies it. There is a spiritual component to this and other aspects of chronic illness and I think this is one of the best books on the subject I have read in many years.
Honest Medicine: Effective,
Time-Tested, inexpensive Treatments for Life-Threatening Diseases by Julia Schopick ($14.95, Innovative
Health Publishing, www.HonestMedicine.com, softcover) introduces four
life-saving treatments that have been effectively treating—and is some cases
curing—people for many years. They do not generate large profits for
pharmaceutical companies and have not been universally accepted. They include
low dose Naltrexon for autoimmune diseases such as multiple sclerosis, lupus,
Chrone’s disease, and rheumatoid arthritis and some other conditions. There is
Ketogenic Diet for pediatric epilepsy, intravenous alpha lipoic acid for
terminal liver disease and, with LDN for some cancers, and Silverion for
non-healing wounds. Her writings have appeared in American Medical News,
Alternative & Complementary Therapies, and the British Medical Journal. The
book comes recommended by a number of physicians. Check it out at her website
and you may well conclude that it offers some real relief and help.
The Family Guide to Mental Health Care by Lloyd I. Sederer, MD ($25.95, W.W.
Norton) addresses a problem that left untreated can devastate a family and, as
in the case of the school murders earlier this year, an entire community. The
book is a comprehensive resource for families dealing with a loved one’s mental
illness, providing the answers needed to understand a variety of disorders,
making informed judgments as to whether doctors are really helping, and getting
the right treatment. The author is
medical director of New York State’s Office of Mental Health and an adjunct
professor at Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health.
A growing
number of women are putting off marriage and children until later in life,
beyond their twenties. Your Pregnancy
after 35 by Dr. Glade B. Curtis, MD with Judith Schuler, MS ($15.99, Da
Capo Press, softcover) addresses pregnancy for older women, offering
information on the risk of high blood pressure and similar issues. There’s
advice on job-stress relief and how to dal with fatigue while working during
pregnancy, special dietary recommendations including vitamin and mineral
intake. The good news is that there are benefits as well for being an older
mom. A wealth of information is provided in this book by an author of 18 books.
Getting Down to Business
Books

Surviving
in the workplace is increasingly a topic for authors who offer advice. Meredith
Fuller has penned Working with Bitches:
Identify the Eight Types of Office Mean Girls and Rise Above Workplace
Nastiness ($14.99, Da Capo Press, softcover). Ms. Fuller is a psychologist
who is a consultant for major organizations, specializing in career
development. She brings thirty years of experience to this book and it is aimed
at women in the workplace who will recognize the same “mean girl” behavior they
encountered in high school and who bring their bitchy behavior into the office.
There’s the “excluder” who pretends you don’t exist and doesn’t pass alone
important information. Others include the “insecure” who micromanages everyone,
trusts no one, and thinks no one knows better than she. There’s the “toxic”,
the “narcissist”, the “screamer”, the “liar”, the “incompetent, and the
“not-a-bitch” who may have a disagreeable manner, but is just trying to do her
job. All are discussed and their behavior is explained along with practical
advice for coping with and protecting oneself against the mean girls, whether
they are one’s peer, subordinate, or your boss. Make Your SHIFT: The Five Most Powerful Moves You Can Make to Get Where
YOU Want to Go ($15.95, ATA Press) by Beverly D. Flaxington may just get
you jump-started if you feel you are not moving ahead in your career and your
life. The author is a business woman, co-founder of a boutique sales and
marketing consultancy, and is a certified Professional Behavior Analyst, among
other credentials. Offering more than motivation, her book is about a
goal-achievement process that anyone can apply to their own life, learning how
to identify attitudes that might be blocking progress, identifying obstacles in
order to focus on those that can be controlled. Research has found that
employees described themselves as possessing one or more five career-limited
traits that include unreliability, responding with ‘it’s not my job’,
procrastination, resistance to change, or projecting a negative attitude. If
the feedback you’re receiving suggests this describes you in some fashion, you
should read this book.
Walt F.J.
Goodridge brings a lot of passion to his book Turn Your Passion into Profit: A step-by-step guide for transforming
any talent, hobby or product idea into a money-making venture ($24.95, www.PassionProfit.com, softcover). The author draws on his
own experience because he walked away from a career as a civil engineer to
pursue his passion for music, writing, and helping others. Since then he has
written 16 books and for several business magazines. Interestingly, he says you
don’t need a degree to succeed because your desire will be your degree and the
steps he spells out will help avoid some of the pitfalls while concentrating on
what works if you want to be a writer, singer, designer, or chef. Clearly the
book is written for those with a creative urge. Turning it into a career takes
passion and some practical knowledge of what to do. This book will be helpful
to creative folks. The Barefoot Spirit:
How Hardship, Hustle, and Heart Built America’s #1 Wine Brand by Michael
Houlihan and Bonnie Harvey with Rick Kushman ($15.95, Evolve Publishing,
softcover) debuts next month and tells the story of how the authors started
Barefoot Wines in the laundry room of a rented farmhouse with no money, no
industry experience, and no clue what they were doing. It’s an inspiration to
see how they broke all the rules and still succeeded against all odds. For
anyone contemplating starting a business, there are lessons to be learned here
and an entertaining story as a bonus. You can check it out at http://www.barefootwinefounders.com/
Kid Stuff
Not too
many new books for younger readers have come in of late, but two are well worth
recommending. Yes, Let’s by Galen
Goodwin Longstreth and illustrated by Maris Wicks ($15.95, Tanglewood) is about
a family’s day in the woods, making it a fun read-aloud book for those with
children aged one through five. It’s the right size for smaller hands and its
text rhymes from page to page in a loving tribute to family togetherness. For a
slightly older group of young readers there an interesting and educational
book, Tool. Time. Twist: A Brief History
of Tools Through Time ($17.99, Craigmore Creations, Portland, OR). Written
by David Shapiro and illustrated by Christopher Herndon, it takes the reader
from the invention of stone axes, the discovery of how to make fire, hunting
tools, drills and wrenches, and all the tools we take for granted, placing
their beginnings in the proper time frame, up to automobiles and rockets that let
us explore outer space. Even an adult will enjoy this one!
For teens,
Zest Books publishes a number of books to help them navigate through life at a
time when a lot of questions need an answer. The How-To Handbook ($10.99) is a good example, providing short,
but good advice on everything from how to address an audience to pop a pimple.
It offers advice on how to manage money, take great photos, and even how to
iron a pair of pants. Other Zest titles such as How to Make the Grade ($14.99) offers advice on how to study
better, avoid stress, and succeed in school while Seven Deadly Clicks: Essential Lessons for Online Safety and Success ($6.99)
can save a youngster a world of trouble. A visit to www.zestbooks.net is a good place to visit whether you
are a parent or a teen.
Novels, Novels, Novels
So many
novels. Here are a few well worth considering.
All the Light There Was by Nancy Kricorian ($24.00, Houghton
Mifflin Harcourt) is about an Armenian family’s struggle to survive the Nazi
occupation of Paris in the 1940s. Meticulously researched and told with great
style, it is an excellent story of loyalty, love, and the many faces of
resistance. It is told through the eyes of Maral Pegorian, whose family survived the Armenian genocide and endeavors to build a new life in their homeland. As the Nazis march down the Rue de
Belleville, the adults brace for the suffering and oppression they know all too
well, while the children see it as a new, bewildering experience. This story is
about an aspect of the war that has not been widely or sufficiently told. War
has always provided many novels and Jerome Gold has written The Moral Life of Soldiers ($16.95,
Black Heron Press, softcover.) It is a novel and five stories in which one is
told by an elderly officer retired from the People’s Army of (North) Vietnam.
It is about the reasons a man takes up arms. In a novella that is part of the
book, 1950’s Georgia is evoked in a story about a white family that moves there
from the north and the moral compromises they must make to live peacefully
among their white neighbors and the compromises they resist making. This is, in
many ways, an unsettling group of stories, but one that asks the reader to
question his or her beliefs.


That’s
it for April! Lots of new non-fiction and fiction books are arriving daily so
make sure to come back in May to learn about them. Tell your family, friends,
and coworkers about Bookviews so they too can enjoy the latest and best new
books.